I used to read a book....
which telling people about mentality......
it said.....
people have their own mentality.....
and there got classes!
1st, 2nd, 3rd and so on.....
1st one of cos..... Great mind!!
and so on......
When talking about mentality.....
for me.....
i will think more to manners of the person......
mentality make manners......
and
if he or she is bad or good in any aspect,
it's all based on mentality which will at last result in manners.......
For me now, i meet lots of people.....
and there are lots of 'weird' things out there....
which it makes me think how I am?
However, to create one self is never end......
i will never judge a lowest ranking student in any class as the dumbest student in the class......
but, if he or she create himself or herself to become a great person.....
one day for sure, that student will make it 1st rank in the class.....
no one low forever and no one high forever......
so come back to the topic; mentality
people have their own way of thinking.....
you can't control all people mind to like you......
you can't tell them to think about you positively all the time......
even the person you know....
and he or she may know you.....
A person may say that he or she knows you.....
but the way they 'know' you is not the way we think he or she knows us.....
what he or she says is we love chocolate....
but actually we may love fruits more......
So, he or she can tell every body that we love chocolate but we even love fruits more.....
So, conclusion is.....
You can't control what people think.....
but you can control what you think about.....
If one day, if you feel like other person is thinking about you negatively.....
so just ignore and say he or she thinks this way is because you show him or her this way....
even he or she is a teacher, good friend, classmate, or even relative.....
However, for me......
if i find out that a close person to me think so much negative towards me......
So, it's all my fault that bring them that way.....
Because i can't make them trust on me......
I can't change their mentality but i can change mine.....
It's ok......
It is just something to ignore and laugh hard!!!!
~(^_^)~
so,
use what you have learned before, see what you have faced before as lesson.....
all these things come to you with reason.....
and God knows how and why they are mend to be so......
learn from mistake and never bring yourself to it again.....
Those who repeat the same mistake is dumber.......
Stop thinking about nonsense, and start anew.....
You know where your strength come from.....
and it is not depend on all these things.....
not even a bit right??
haha
so?
what you waiting for??
Just start anew~
Forget about the pass or even present.....
Just focus on now on......
You know why are you being here....
it is to study.....
this is a part of a life long learning
If you find something extra (Good friend, boyfriend, soul mate) then it is good for you,
but if it is not than there is nothing to be regret of.....
at least you learn something from these.....
(^_^)
Chayok!!!
God, please keep me away from any bad things....
please place me with those who love me and i love them....
please let me be with those who sincere and truthfully.....
please let me happy with a right person and please give them happiness hundredth times bigger than me^^
And for those who you sent to me with a great purpose to teach me.....
Please let them find their happiness with the person who love them and sincere......
I can't say i like or love them....
Because there are so much pain.....
I can just say.....
Hope they are happy and success.....
Sathuk^^
